I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • indomara@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    Welcome! Lemmy is like Reddit was in its infancy.

    Don’t be a jerk and you’ll be fine. :)

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    By ratio, there are way more communists than on Reddit. There are three major groups, anarchists, Marxist-Leninists, and liberals, and each instance tends to have more of one or maybe 2 than the others. Getting a feel for instance culture goes a long way.

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    5 hours ago

    if youre not trans or queer youre at a massive posting disadvantage and must post 10x more to keep up

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    Hello, and welcone to Lemmy. Glad you made it, here’s my overall advice:

    • No need to get hung up over a few early downvotes on your comment that might cause its score to go negative for a bit. People can be strongly opinionated here. Not everyone agrees with me on this, but I do appreciate people willing to post honestly held unpopular opinions and play a reasonable devil’s advocate in threads. (This is different than just being a contrarian.)
    • For your own and everyone’s benefit, try to engage in thoughtful, well reasoned and good faith discussion with empathy for others where it’s due. If you feel like a chain of replies is going nowhere good, there’s no shame in walking away from it.
    • Report and block the jerks, trolls and spammers you might encounter like on any forum-like site. Don’t let them spoil your experience when most people here are respectful.

    Enjoy your time here!

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    9 hours ago

    Don’t be a dick. If you want to be negative that’s fine, but be prepared with a litany of sources.

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    16 hours ago

    Please do not drag the same tired jokes over from reddit (e.g. broken arms). Stick around long enough to learn Lemmy’s tired jokes.

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    19 hours ago

    Take advice from Detective Frank Drebin

    “Like a blindman at an orgy, I was going to have to feel my way through”

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        17 hours ago

        “I’m sure we can handle this situation maturely, just like the responsible adults that we are. Isn’t that right, Mr. Poopy Pants?”

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    19 hours ago

    Each Lemmy instance has its own rules, and each community as well. Please read them before posting, because rule #3 for this community is:

    1. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
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      I switched from reddit awhile back. It is similar, but so far have seen a lot less hostility than reddit. I don’t have time for those types , so if they turn to insults rather than proper dialog I just block them, even if they weren’t talking to me directly. It makes it a much more pleasant experience