Easier yes, but different. Every month (or few months as they get older) things change and it’s a new kind of challenge. So the problems you have now will end and you’ll have new things to tackle.
Protip: get involved with other young parents. The kids will get social time and tire themselves out, and you get to split parenting with others and it’s less effort. It takes a tribe to raise a child
Also have depression, can understand.




Yes. Very much. It’s hard to be present in the moment. It got easier when we could do things together. Parents group is a good idea, make friends, spread the load.
And always read books to your kid before bed. If you do nothing else, pick that one thing to do at least