Water usage is probably my biggest. Living in a high desert, my wife and MIL see no problem with filling one side of the sink with hot soapy water to wash a few dishes because “that’s just how I’ve always done it”, to watering the grass and plants for hours. All of this makes me mental.

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    “that’s just how I’ve always done it” is the worst when it’s used as an excuse to avoid putting effort into personal growth

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    Using AI is amoral and I will never use it. As a programmer, every day it feels like I’m increasingly the minority.

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      I remember when I was a child and I first got experience with computers. I saw how file systems worked and thought to myself “wow I should structure my own mind this way so I can try to think as well as a computer can!”. I may have autism.

      AI is the exact opposite. Taking something beautiful, clear, clean, organized, efficient, definitive. And inserting all the messy, sloppy, uncertain, unreproducible aspect of our bloody electric meat brains. It’s a move in the opposite direction of where I think humanity should be going.

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      don’t give up. you are not alone. patience is key and the time where deep understanding of technology will become essential again

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      Damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Utilize the tools or you’ll end up unemployed.

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        In all honesty, I don’t think I could live with myself and, at least currently, think I’d rather find a new career path.

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          If you ever figure out what the path is let me know cuz any employable skills I have are going to be jobs affected by AI

          It ain’t trades because literally everyone is going to do that when AI kills all the other jobs

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    Taking a car for a 3km distance is unconscionable when walking or cycling are valid options.

    Driving less than the speed limit will not kill you.

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    People who believe in any religion are the same as dormant terrorist cells. One can have perfectly formal relationships with them on a daily basis, but given the right conditions, they become a huge, possibly lethal, risk.

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      Agreed. The amount of down votes you’re receiving shows that, even on lemmy, >25% of users have an immediate and ingrained distaste to others sharing the thought that religion can be dangerous. The religious hold their own religion in such high regards, not realizing that, for the most part, they were never given a choice of which religion, let alone the choice to not be religious at all.

      “With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion” - Steven Weinberg

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        I wonder how many of the people who downvote me have people in their family who will be sent to die in Iran for the lunacy of a bunch of Christians excited for Armageddon.

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          consider antivaxxer parents that stick with their beliefs despite their children who died of easily preventable diseases to find your answers.

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            That really happens there? My god. Well, after all priests come in many different uniforms. Sometimes even sounding like a screeching cabinet like RFK Jr.

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              That really happens there? My god.

              some part of me wants to live in your world for this; i assumed that everyone knew that this was the case since it’s on cnn/bbc/al jazeera/rt/etc.

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                I mean, I have a bed sofa. Dunno about refugee status, but this is some Carrie’s mom-level stuff.

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                  It goes so far beyond the realm of fiction; Americans are literally exporting this asshatter to latin america

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    In relation to your hill: While you’re entirely correct, that’s absurdly small potatoes compared to industrial water use. Yes, we should be conscious of our water use and limit unnecessary overuse, but a higher priority ought to be regulating industrial use. Data centers are the obvious example of using way too much for bullshit that ain’t worth the water or power. Speaking of power, we could reduce water use by power plants. Nearly all generate power by boiling water. I’m a power plant operator at a plant that happens to use reclaim water as our source water, and we purify on-site for the main process, and we have a brine concentrator and crystallizer on-site to recycle the cooling tower blowdown and remove the solids to a dumpster that goes to a landfill. Unfortunately we burn methane, so I can’t say that we’re green, but we at least discharge zero water into local waterways (except storm drains when it rains).

    My hill: Vote with your wallet. If you really believe in something, stop giving money to companies fighting against it. I won’t buy chikfila because the owners actively spend money on gay conversion camps and lobby to reverse the legality of same sex marriage. It’s impossible to research every little thing before every purchase, and sometimes there’s no reasonable alternative, but something like chikfila is easy to avoid. There is no ethical consumption under capitalism, but don’t let perfect be the enemy of good. Little changes can add up, and doing anything even a little bit better is an improvement over not trying.

    Bonus hill: Put your fucking grocery cart into the cart corral. It takes ten seconds and prevents cars from getting hit. It’s kind of the simplest measure for societal decency. I don’t believe in the death penalty, but what value are you contributing to society if you’re too selfish to return your fucking cart?

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      www.Goodsuniteus.com is a start to seeing where your money goes. Still looking for a better alternative.

      The good news is as the giant evil corporations buy up everything it gets easier to just stop buying shit in general.

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      Your hill - first two sentences absolutely, in UK so no chikfila.

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      From Wallet Voting by Cory Doctrow:

      Wallet-votes always go to the people with the thickest wallets, and statistically, that is not you.

      It doesn’t mean to keep shopping at Amazon if you hate their business practices, it just means that you & your friends won’t have any impact on Amazon’s business policies.

      Granted, you’d be a hypocrite, so definitely don’t shop where you hate, but don’t expect a giant corp to change.

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        I read that link and I’m not sure I understand Doctorow’s reasoning on the subject. I typically find people that dismiss voting with their wallet fundamentally misunderstand microeconomics but either way, both points (yours and mine) are definitely not hills I’d die on.

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          I think the general point is that the financial hurt that I can put on a company is peanuts compared to someone with deep pockets (ie: shareholders & businesses). Even if I were to get all my friends, family and direct coworkers to alter a shopping behaviour, it’s unlikely to result in any change.

          On the other hand, if I were to take that same group and be able to pressure my political representatives to do something about it (as we frequently see in California), then something may change. Similarly, me quitting my job out of disgust with a non-recycling policy won’t get any attention, but if I can get my union to take it up, then the company will listen.

          TL;DR: a person can’t make change, a group of people can.

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    I ditched my smartphone over 5 years ago, and will NEVER go back. In fact, I don’t have a phone of any kind. They are surveillance/psyop devices, and they are turning people into biological robots. The scifi show Dollhouse is basically where this is all heading.

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      I do this too. It’s not even hard if you live in a rural area, since you’re in good company.

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    my hill: when i post an asklemmy, i place my answer as a comment, so the thread doesn’t become a bunch of replies to my personal answer, so each reply to the post relates directly to the original question

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    People should be able to transfer their vote of their first preference didn’t win. Sorry democrats, being forced to vote for you isnt democracy.

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    ALL information, except what you can hold in your brain, should be 100% public, with no limits on use.

    An unimaginable concept right now, but I think it is essential if we hope to ever trust each other and achieve global peace.

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        They certainly could. Authenticity and originality become what is valued. Everything being public means you will know who is the original.

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          No, because if the information is public domain, then anyone can freely copy and redistribute it. Nobody could incent anything, because as soon as you do, its public, and anyone can copy it. Nobody could create unique software, because anyone could copy it.

          If an artist or creator has a unique original idea, then in your system, it is automatically public, and free for anyone to copy and redistribute.

          Nobody will give a shit who the original is, if they can get the exact same thing for cheap or for free.

          In the 90s, everyone knew who the original artists for music was. They still all downloaded it for free, because they could, and it was not even legal.

          So, i’m afraid you’re living in a fantasy world with this idea.

          Intellectual property is important. But, I think it is too highly enforced in some cases and not enough in others. For example, I believe it should be the law that anyone could make an operating system fully compatible with windows, and that windows should be force to provide all information to allow that, as otherwise they have an unjust monopoly.

          There are other cases like that, like, I believe every nation should make it mandatory that all social media algorithms are publicly declared, able to be copied, and able to be tested to make sure the declared algorithm is correct. This way they cant be biased to brainwash people.

          But your idea goes too far, as it completely.destroys anybody’s ability to make profit off ideas.

          The result will be that people keep ideas to themselves.

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          Yes it does, if you want to be good at it.

          If its a job, you dont need another job, whoch means all your time and effort can be used for being a great artist.

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    Getting married without a prenup in today’s world is foolish. Ask marriage counselors and they will in general tell you to get a prenup. A prenup is wrote by two people and both have their own attorney. Anyone who refuses to get one or even discuss one is someone you should run from. A prenup details how a divorce AND how a marriage should run.

    Also anyone who wants operating system or device level age verification doesn’t understand how bad things will get if we do that. It’s only about mass surveillance and selling of your data. It does nothing to protect kids.

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      I can’t comment on the prenups as I have never even considered marriage.

      I am not disagreeing with your opinion on device level age verification. I am interested in what you think we should do to protect kids online. There has been a lot of talk about this being the wrong way to do that but very little discussion on what other methods we could do.

      Would you be opposed to a “this computer is used by a child” checkbox and just that true/false would be passed to apps?

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    I hate doing dishes like that anyway. I just scrub them one at a time under running water after letting them soak in whatever water can fill in. I don’t really think of the sink as a sanitary item regardless of how much you clean it. The drain is always going to be gross.

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    Neil Postman was right.

    Our educational models and methods are changing for the worse.

    TV and the internet are terrible mediums for public or political discourse and this has exacerbated many of our existing issues.

    Our culture has become more shallow and has started to lack something profound because of how we utilize technology for education, business, and entertainment.

    Things will not improve until we change our relationship with these technologies.

    EDIT: several words.