Hi,

I’m an engineer in its late 30s and I sometime go to high-school talking about my job, my scholar background, etc… I remember being very stressed about my future at that time, so I try to tell them what I wish someone had told me 20 years ago.

If any teens are reading this (or people in contact with teens), what topics or advice would you want to hear from some random dude like me ?

Thanks for your help

ps: I know most of lemmy users are middle age, but there is no way I create account on shitktok, Insta or stuff.

  • Dreamless4561@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    I’m 18 years old. Currently a first year in university studying Accounting and Finance. Right now, I see myself going one of two ways. Either I become a financial planner and hopefully opening up a boutique firm. Or, I want to be a high school teacher (Math, accounting, and history is what I’d want to teach)

    I feel I may enjoy teaching more, and it might be easier to get into. The financial planning would probably be more challenging, however I could probably make more money doing it, and my parents would much rather I go into this versus teaching. What can I do to help me figure out what would be the better option for me?

    • borokov@lemmy.worldOP
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      4 days ago

      Hi,

      I think you may have a look to @[email protected] comment in this thread as he depict very well the choice you currently face.

      You may also ask yourself how much important is your job for you. Some people don’t really care about their job. They see it just as a way to have money and enjoy their life through leisure activities, friends, family. They can do anything as long as it pay. Some people (like me) really need to enjoy their job. I need technical challenge and I couldn’t work in finance, politic, management, administrative, etc… even with better pay. So, do you think you can handle working on a field that’s just “meh…” and enjoy you life outside your job. Or do you think job is really an important part of your life.

      Regarding your parents, they will be proud of you whatever you do as long as you are happy. So, don’t try to make THEM happy. Try to make YOU happy. And, you are not stuck in a field for you whole life. You can do a job that pay well at the beginning, and then reorient to a lower paid, but more interesting job. Reorientation is not easy, but it’s doable. Lot of people work 10 year in a stressed well paid field, to switch to raising goats in the wild when they turn 35/40yo.

      Life is not a sprint. It’s a marathon. Hope this help.

  • JargonWagon@lemmy.world
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    11 days ago

    No longer a teen, but I remember liking the information laid out by https://www.bls.gov/ooh/

    It broke down stats around career prospects, the education requirements to get into that career, the outlook of future job prospects in that career, etc. I didn’t really care too much about what job I worked, just that I had one, and then I could at least enjoy my life outside of it comfortably. I found a few that seemed interesting to me and worked to those. I think having it all laid out for them would be helpful for them to make their own informed decisions.

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      10 days ago

      Are you joking or not? If you’re not joking, I think you may be projecting your own stupidity at that age onto everyone else. Teenagers are perfectly capable of signing up for an account on a social media website… In fact, they’re kind of notorious for doing so.

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          10 days ago

          I understood what federation was just fine when I was a teenager. Again, projecting your own stupidity. Teenagers are perfectly capable of using email.