• iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works
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    13 days ago

    To be clear, there’s nothing wrong with marrying a woman who does soft porn. It’s only worth mentioning in the context of the rest of the stuff.

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      13 days ago

      To me, it’s only “worth” mentioning in the context of political hypocrisy.

      Outside of that, I don’t like it being demonized either.

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      12 days ago

      In your humble opinion, sure. I know a lot of guys who wouldn’t date a porn ‘star’ because they usually have other issues that make them undateable. And Im speaking from experience. I worked with sex workers for five years in a street outreach in a major city. Every single one of those girls/guys were there because of bad circumstances in their lives - and it was very often abuse or drugs that kept them locked into sex work. The whole idea that its a victimless job if you do it online is a joke. Its a sick world and it only destroys people’s souls in the long run. Only the inexperienced and horny men want to believe there are no personal consequences. There most definitely are.